A compilation of most of the prayers in the Big Book
“I earnestly advise every alcoholic to read this book through, and though perhaps you came to scoff, you may remain to pray.” – William D. Silkworth, MD – Pg. xxx
Remember what it says in the Big Book; “When you are disturbed, no matter what the cause, you are at fault.”
So how do we get undisturbed? You will see the phrase “We ask…” many times throughout the book. This is the simplest of prayers you can use all during your day when you find yourself disturbed.
For example; if you are angry – God please remove my anger! If you are afraid – God please remove my fear!
This simple form of prayer helps us to return to serenity no matter what the circumstances.
“God is everything or He is nothing. God either is or He isn’t.”
“What was our choice to be?” Pg. 53
We asked His protection and care with complete abandon. Pg. 59
The Third Step Prayer
Pg. 63 – “God, I offer myself to Thee – to build with me and do with me as Thou wilt. Relieve me of the bondage of self, that I may better do Thy will. Take away my difficulties, that victory over them may bear witness to those I would help of Thy Power, Thy Love and Thy Way of Life. May I do Thy will always!”
The Fourth Step
Resentment pg.67 – We asked God to help us show them the same tolerance, pity, and patience that we would cheerfully grant a sick friend. When a person offended we said to ourselves, “This is a sick man. How can I be helpful to him? God save me from being angry. Thy will be done”.
Fear pg. 68 – We ask Him to remove our fear and direct our attention to what He would have us be.
Sex Pg. 69 – We asked God to mold our ideals and help us live up to them.
Sex Pg. 69 – In meditation, we ask God what we do about each specific matter.
Sex Pg. 70 – To sum up about sex: We pray for the right ideal, for guidance in each questionable situation, for sanity and for strength to do the right thing.
The Fifth Step
Pg. 75 – We thank God from the bottom of our heart that we know Him better.
Pg. 75 – we ask if we have omitted anything,
The Sixth Step
Pg. 76 – If we still cling to something we will not let go, we ask God to help us be willing.
The Seventh Step
Pg. 76 – My Creator, I am now willing that You should have all of me, good and bad. I pray that You now remove from me every single defect of character which stands in the way of my usefulness to you and my fellows. Grant me strength, as I go out from here, to do Your bidding. Amen
The Eighth Step
Pg. 76 – If we haven’t the will to do this, we ask until it comes.
The Ninth Step
Pg. 79 – Legal Matter – We ask that we be given strength and direction to do the right thing, no matter what the personal consequences might be.
Pg. 80 – Other Effected – If we have obtained permission, have consulted with others, asked God to help.
Pg. 82 Infidelity – Each might pray about it, having the other one’s happiness uppermost in mind.
Pg. 83 Family – So we clean house with the family, asking each morning in meditation that our Creator show us the way of patience, tolerance, kindliness and love.
The Tenth Step
Pg. 84 – Continue to watch for selfishness, dishonesty, resentment and fear. When these crop up, we ask God at once to remove them.
Pg. 85 – Every day is a day when we must carry the vision of God’s will into all our activities.
“How can I best serve Thee – Thy will not mine be done”.
The Eleventh Step
Pg. 86 – Night After mediation on the day just completed, “We ask God’s forgiveness and inquire what corrective measures should be taken”.
Pg. 86 – Morning Before we begin our day, “we ask god to direct our thinking, especially asking that it be divorced from self-pity, dishonest or self-seeking motives”.
Pg. 86 – Morning In thinking about our day, “We ask God for inspiration, an intuitive thought or decision”.
Pg. 87 – Morning We usually conclude the period of mediation with a prayer that we be shown all through the day what our next step is to be, that we be given whatever we need to take care of such problems. We especially ask for freedom from self-will, and are careful to make no requests for ourselves only. We may ask for ourselves, however, if others will be helped. We are careful never to pray for our own selfish ends.
Pg. 87 and 88 – All Day: As we go through the day we pause, when agitated or doubtful, and ask for the right thought or action.
The Twelfth Step Pg. 164 – Ask Him in your morning meditation what you can do each day for the man who is still sick. The answers will come IF your own house is in order.